At the start of the COVID-19 pandemic, life for many people changed very quickly. Worry and concern were natural partners of all that change — getting used to new routines, loneliness and financial pressure, among other issues. Information overload, rumor and misinformation didn’t help.
Worldwide surveys done in 2020 and 2021 found higher than typical levels of stress, insomnia, anxiety and depression. By 2022, levels had lowered but were still higher than before 2020.
Though feelings of distress about COVID-19 may come and go, they are still an issue for many people. You aren’t alone if you feel distress due to COVID-19. And you’re not alone if you’ve coped with the stress in less than healthy ways, such as substance use.
But healthier self-care choices can help you cope with COVID-19 or any other challenge you may face.
And knowing when to get help can be the most essential self-care action of all.
Stress and worry are common during a crisis. But something like the COVID-19 pandemic can push people beyond their ability to cope.
In surveys, the most common symptoms reported were trouble sleeping and feeling anxiety or nervous. The number of people noting those symptoms went up and down in surveys given over time. Depression and loneliness were less common than nervousness or sleep problems, but more consistent across surveys given over time. Among adults, use of drugs, alcohol and other intoxicating substances has increased over time as well.
The first step is to notice how often you feel helpless, sad, angry, irritable, hopeless, anxious or afraid. Some people may feel numb.
Keep track of how often you have trouble focusing on daily tasks or doing routine chores. Are there things that you used to enjoy doing that you stopped doing because of how you feel? Note any big changes in appetite, any substance use, body aches and pains, and problems with sleep.
These feelings may come and go over time. But if these feelings don’t go away or make it hard to do your daily tasks, it’s time to ask for help.
If you’re feeling suicidal or thinking of hurting yourself, seek help.
- Contact your healthcare professional or a mental health professional.
- Contact a suicide hotline. In the U.S., call or text 988 to reach the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, available 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Or use the Lifeline Chat. Services are free and confidential.
If you are worried about yourself or someone else, contact your healthcare professional or mental health professional. Some may be able to see you in person or talk over the phone or online.
You also can reach out to a friend or loved one. Someone in your faith community also could help.
And you may be able to get counseling or a mental health appointment through an employer’s employee assistance program.
Another option is information and treatment options from groups such as:
- National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI).
- Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA).
- Anxiety and Depression Association of America.
Some people may use unhealthy ways to cope with anxiety around COVID-19. These unhealthy choices may include things such as misuse of medicines or legal drugs and use of illegal drugs. Unhealthy coping choices also can be things such as sleeping too much or too little, or overeating. It also can include avoiding other people and focusing on only one soothing thing, such as work, television or gaming.
Unhealthy coping methods can worsen mental and physical health. And that is particularly true if you’re trying to manage or recover from COVID-19.
Self-care actions can help you restore a healthy balance in your life. They can lessen everyday stress or significant anxiety linked to events such as the COVID-19 pandemic. Self-care actions give your body and mind a chance to heal from the problems long-term stress can cause.
Healthy self-care tips start with the basics. Give your body what it needs and avoid what it doesn’t need. Some tips are:
- Get the right amount of sleep for you. A regular sleep schedule, when you go to bed and get up at similar times each day, can help avoid sleep problems.
- Move your body. Regular physical activity and exercise can help reduce anxiety and improve mood. Any activity you can do regularly is a good choice. That may be a scheduled workout, a walk or even dancing to your favorite music.
- Choose healthy food and drinks. Foods that are high in nutrients, such as protein, vitamins and minerals are healthy choices. Avoid food or drink with added sugar, fat or salt.
- Avoid tobacco, alcohol and drugs. If you smoke tobacco or if you vape, you’re already at higher risk of lung disease. Because COVID-19 affects the lungs, your risk increases even more. Using alcohol to manage how you feel can make matters worse and reduce your coping skills. Avoid taking illegal drugs or misusing prescriptions to manage your feelings.
Healthy coping actions for your brain start with deciding how much news and social media is right for you. Staying informed, especially during a pandemic, helps you make the best choices but do it carefully.
Set aside a specific amount of time to find information in the news or on social media, stay limited to that time, and choose reliable sources. For example, give yourself up to 20 or 30 minutes a day of news and social media. That amount keeps people informed but not overwhelmed.
For COVID-19, consider reliable health sources. Examples are the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) and the World Health Organization (WHO).
Other healthy self-care tips are:
- Relax and recharge. Many people benefit from relaxation exercises such as mindfulness, deep breathing, meditation and yoga. Find an activity that helps you relax and try to do it every day at least for a short time. Fitting time in for hobbies or activities you enjoy can help manage feelings of stress too.
- Stick to your health routine. If you see a healthcare professional for mental health services, keep up with your appointments. And stay up to date with all your wellness tests and screenings.
- Stay in touch and connect with others. Family, friends and your community are part of a healthy mental outlook. Together, you form a healthy support network for concerns or challenges. Social interactions, over time, are linked to a healthier and longer life.
Stigma can make people feel isolated and even abandoned. They may feel sad, hurt and angry when people in their community avoid them for fear of getting COVID-19. People who have experienced stigma related to COVID-19 include people of Asian descent, health care workers and people with COVID-19.
Treating people differently because of their medical condition, called medical discrimination, isn’t new to the COVID-19 pandemic. Stigma has long been a problem for people with various conditions such as Hansen’s disease (leprosy), HIV, diabetes and many mental illnesses.
People who experience stigma may be left out or shunned, treated differently, or denied job and school options. They also may be targets of verbal, emotional and physical abuse.
Communication can help end stigma or discrimination. You can address stigma when you:
- Get to know people as more than just an illness. Using respectful language can go a long way toward making people comfortable talking about a health issue.
- Get the facts about COVID-19 or other medical issues from reputable sources such as the CDC and WHO.
- Speak up if you hear or see myths about an illness or people with an illness.
The virus that causes COVID-19 is still a concern for many people. By recognizing when to get help and taking time for your health, life challenges such as COVID-19 can be managed.